Friday, August 14, 2009

Our Wedding Anniversary

This was the car -- a 1966 Barracuda -- that we drove off into the sunset after our wedding. A perfect August day. The earth, sky, water, and many family and friends witnessed our vows.

Tomorrow is our 15th wedding anniversary. Two cats, two kids, four fish and one dog later, I can say I have regrets. I wish Michael and I had been mature enough to make this commitment to each other earlier. It certainly would have given us more time to be together and have more children. See, although we are celebrating 15 years of married life, we were in love for ten years before we got married. We had a long distance relationship, each of us selfishly pursuing our own careers. I never recommend it when young people are considering it. Because at the end of the day, it's not the career that counts, but being with the person you love.
I am thankful for these past 25 years together with you Michael, but it's the past 15 years being married that I cherish. These are a few things I love doing with you:

Sleeping (even if the cat is in between us).

Watching movies.

Holding hands.

Reading aloud.

Making babies.

Afternoon tea.

Baths (you've got to admit it saves water).



Kissing (Did you know that kissing started with mothers giving a food kiss to their babies?).

Daily letters.

Road trips.



Thinking about growing old and toothless with grandchildren around us (That's the most romantic thing I can think of).
I love you, Michael B. I love who I've become being with you -- a better person.
We don't have too many pictures of us together, but here's one from five or six years ago at Thanksgiving. Oh yeah! Thank God.



Angela said...

Oh, I love this post. Congratulations!

Vijaya said...

Thank you, Angela.

laurasalas said...

Sweetest post ever, Vijaya! Happy belated congratulations!

Vijaya said...

Thank you, Laura.